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Jul. 25th, 2005

  • 10:02 AM

I hate it when plans change. Tsukasa and I had planned on going downtown today so that he could sell some of his clothes to second hand shops in preparation for his moving. I talked to my parents, and they said that they didn't have any plans so I could go. And then this morning, they came up with the idea that they're going to Mt. Rainier and the rainforest, which I've been wanting to go to for months.

So I called him to let him know of the change in plans. He sounded kinda... less than happy. I felt really bad about it, and explained over and over how upset I was that my parents hadn't planned on this before we had planned on going downtown together. It seemed like he didn't care much though. There was a lot of dead silence in our phone conversation, and I just wanted him to say something like, "That sucks that your plans changed, but that's okay. We can go together next time, don't worry about it." But he didn't say anything like that. I think he's really upset with me...

I didn't do anything wrong, but I feel terrible. He was acting so insensitive to me, not like he's ever done before. I'm actually crying as I write this... I hope he can understand how bad I feel, even though there was nothing I can do about it.
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[info]kibethan wrote:
Jul. 25th, 2005 06:01 pm (UTC)
Awwh, Emi, don't worry! Things'll always work themselves out!
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[info]silver_megami wrote:
Jul. 25th, 2005 06:07 pm (UTC)
>__< *hugggs* I hope you feel better. If there's anything that I could do to help, just ask.

Note: I have a bat and gun on hand, and am willing to use it.
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[info]rpg_chick wrote:
Jul. 25th, 2005 06:34 pm (UTC)
He's probably just really touchy since he is leaving.
I wouldn't think too much about it right now.
Things will be okay I'm sure.
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[info]fathoms_deep wrote:
Jul. 25th, 2005 06:47 pm (UTC)
Rpg_chick is right. He's probably worried that you don't care he's leaving... but what you probably should do is go right t ohis house if you know where he lives, or call him again. It's always better to settle things face-to-face. never settle them over phone or Instant Message.
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[info]goku_the_saru wrote:
Jul. 25th, 2005 07:34 pm (UTC)
hmm
Couldn't you just go with Tsukasa anyway. I mean you did plan on going with him first. I bet there will be other times you'll get to go to Mt. Rainier and the rainforest. They wont be going anywhere anytime soon. I dunno. It's just my opinion. Sorry, can't help much.
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[info]sorata68 wrote:
Jul. 26th, 2005 12:20 am (UTC)
Re: hmm
I agree with goku-san. You could always go to Mt. Rainier next weekend ne? Maybe he was dissappointed because you told him that you would go with him, then cancelled (kinda like maybe the trip to mt. rainer is more important than him or something), and he wants to spend as much time with you as possible before he leaves. ^^;; Sorry, I'm not good with relationship problems, suimasen...
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[info]goku_the_saru wrote:
Jul. 26th, 2005 04:11 am (UTC)
Re: hmm
Yeah, I don't wanna gang up on my Emi-chan or anything. I just think Tsukasa is feeling depressed because he is moving away from someone he really loves, and he wants to spend as much time with that person as he can before he has to leave.
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[info]vincevalentine wrote:
Jul. 26th, 2005 01:16 am (UTC)
just my two cents since I had to go thru something similar too
Maybe this is time that you should have 'the talk' with your parents? I know, it sounds very dreadful, but they should respect your choice and how much you care for your boyfriend. And yes, you made the promise with Tsukasa before your parents came up with the other plan. Unless it was super emergency thing (like death in family or somebody getting very sick), I should agree that your plan with Tsukasa was priority over others.

I pretty much had to do the same thing with my mother, since she did not get why I could not fall in love with someone living in States. C'mon, love never worked like that from the start. Now, my mother became very fond of my boyfriend, regarding him as a future 'son-in-law'. Heck, she even bugged us couple of times when we would get married and give her a grandson O_o;

If you and Tsukasa are very serious about each other (I mean, real serious enough to consider marriage and stuff like that), maybe it is best to have the talk with the parents? More often the parents think that it is just a casual thing before the kids let them know that how much serious you two consider each other.
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[info]heaven_kasanami wrote:
Jul. 26th, 2005 01:18 am (UTC)
Well, all the good advice has been given out before I got here, so um....banana split. Or Green Tea frappachino. Don't ask me how those solve relationship problems but I stick to my suggestion.

Seriously though, people go through these things and it's bound to happen. And I agree with Katie-the rainforest will always be there man. *Unless we need more condos and parking lots* So spend some time with Mister Tsukasa.
And BTW I'm making you a present so genkidashite! (But I still can't get Miyabi's hair down. But I think you can tell who the characters are? *hopes*)
Cheer up Emi!
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[info]goku_the_saru wrote:
Jul. 26th, 2005 04:13 am (UTC)
O.o
Gasp you know my name! *hides in a corner*
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[info]heaven_kasanami wrote:
Jul. 26th, 2005 05:47 am (UTC)
Re: O.o
Oh shiza! I didn't even notice I used it! *^O^* Its me Jessi...I used to sit in front of you in Kunitsugu's class. You introduced me to Emi! Nya~! I think I just remembered that was your screen name from somewhere...? Meh. Anyways! HI!!!
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[info]goku_the_saru wrote:
Jul. 26th, 2005 05:04 pm (UTC)
Re: O.o
Lol. Ahahaha. I remember you now. ^^ We used to ride the bus together right? O^_^O
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[info]heaven_kasanami wrote:
Jul. 26th, 2005 05:39 pm (UTC)
Re: O.o
Yessir.
And you showed me lots of pictures from Japan! Are you still at Highline??
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[info]goku_the_saru wrote:
Jul. 26th, 2005 07:24 pm (UTC)
Re: O.o
yes. But Im going to miss the first couple days of school in Fall because I'll still be in Japan.
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[info]goku_the_saru wrote:
Jul. 26th, 2005 07:24 pm (UTC)
Re: O.o
I only have 1 class in fall cause Im lazy. muwahaha.
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